Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Moved
2010 has been a challenging year for us so far. We have struggled like so many others trying to modify our loan on our home for over 16 months now and without luck, we had to say good-bye to our home. It was hard to let go of something Jordan designed and put so much time into; or sweat-equity as we've called it. It was our dream home we built to raise our kids in. But we've found our dreams have changed. None the less, we are adaptable and we are happier than we've been in a long time. Finally moving forward, and not stuck standing still. We have been so blessed and I've realized that there is a bigger plan for us than we had dreamed up. Our girls have not blinked at the move and have adjusted SO well. They seem more at peace than I've felt from them in a long time. I imagine much of their frustrations and unsettling feelings came from me not knowing what was going to happen with our home. When mom's not happy nobody is right? We have moved into an old home we are renovating and its been so much fun. Oh how I love a project. It is 1/3 of the size of our 3300 square feet home we just moved from and its our cozy cottage. It's amazing what we think we need and cannot live without.. but really we can. Jordan has been the busiest of us all. On top of my "honey-do's" with this old house, he is doing tinting for Tyler's auto-glass business, working for Ballard Truss once again designing Truss', going to school on Tuesdays to get his EMT, and of course volunteering for Show low Fire Dept. doing shifts and days as often as our income will allow. He is such a hard worker. His aim is to be full-time for Show low Fire Dept. and we are rooting for him every step of the way. We are baby stepping our way from the financial crisis that this economy has left us and so many others in. But we're not worried:) We're grateful to everyone who helped us in our move and gave us emotional support throughout this. This is my closure. Its time to start celebrating the simple things in life!
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It's a bummer that you had to sacrifice your beautiful home that you two built together, but it's good to hear you guys are happy in a less stressful situation! And, you did manage to get a gem of a house out of the deal. Have I mentioned how much I love your house??
Cute pictures below - Tell Jordan not to worry... he looks like an 18 year old high school graduate in the first picture ;)
Ohhh Brooke, I'm sorry to hear. This last couple of years has been rough. You have me in tears... I needed to hear this. Your right, you think you can't live without the "things" when in reality they are just "things". Sometimes its hard to not get caught up in wanting worldly possessions. But what I have realized is that it is all a front. It no longer matters what people have. Anyone can finance a lifestyle. Why do we find that so appealing? In reality 90% of us can't afford the "stuff" just the payments. No to mention the thing we should "want" is a strong family,a strong foundation healthy relationships, and good health. Not the riches of life. they really don't bring the happiness that we seek for. Anyways sorry to ramble, you just hit a heart string. I am so glad you shared your story. Here is to "celebrating the simple things" Good luck with your little cottage renovation. I am sure it will be a "home" in no time!
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